Toxic mother question?

I just went through a divorce (2yrs ago) a job loss, a pregnancy ( the father dumped me) and now I'm poverty strickn and all on my own wthout much famliy support. Im really upset becuase when i try to talk to my mom abut it she will not aknowledge that i have been through anything and she thinks i should just get over it. yet she babies my brothers & sisters, even though what they are going throgh isnt tha tmuch. she also calls me every day to complain about her life and has no sympathy for me what-so-ever. im really upset about this/