Is it okay in your opinion for a man and a woman to plan a pregnancy, (read on)?

i think its wrong pretty much saying you better get back with me or you cant see your daughter. your letting your emotions get in the way and because of that your using her as a weapon. because of this he may not be in her life at all. i would let him see the child but on his own and if he had a problem with it just say i dont want you introducing your monthly gfs to my baby its not fair on her so unless its something thats going to last i dont want any of your girlfriends near her. you cant ask for anything else